Tips for effective coaching conversations
Coaching Tips to Strengthen Effective Behavior:
- Recount the successful behavior, in detail and its outcomes and impacts.
- Use specific examples and elements that contribute to a successful result.
- Help the employee to identify the root causes for this successful behavior.
- Brainstorm with the employee about benefits/ways the behavior can be replicated in the other circumstances.
- Express your confidence in the employee’s ability to continue to demonstrate it.
- Document notes of this discussion.
- Observe and praise repeated demonstration of the successful behavior.
Coaching Tips to Address Poor Performance:
- Focus on one specific behavior considered to be poor performance.
- Describe one thing the employee could do differently to achieve greater success. Caution: discussing only the cause in detail won’t create different results.
- Describe the benefits of the desired behavior and your confidence in the employee’s ability to demonstrate it.
- Use specific examples, time frames and explain the impact it would have on others.
- Listen carefully and be open to the employee’s perspective without judgment.
- Help the employee identify how to master and apply the new desired behavior.
- Draft a mutually agreeable development plan, if required.
- Document key elements of the discussion.
- Set dates for a follow up discussion.
- Observe for and praise demonstration of the new desired behavior.
Coaching Tips to Follow-Up on Poor Performance
- Gather sufficient evidence of demonstrated behavior and results: direct observation, specific work results, reports and records, feedback shared from others, including customers.
- Review the initial discussion around poor performance. Praise any progress made by the employee in demonstrating the desired behavior as well as on the employee's development or performance improvement plan.
- Engage the employee in discussions about why behavior improvements are insufficient, and look for a reason why.
- Describe, in detail, the desired behavior and when/how it should be exhibited.
- Discuss consequences of poor performance and agree on next steps.
- Ensure that employees have all the support and resources they believe necessary to help them change their behavior; allocate as required.
- Check-in frequently.
- Set dates for improvement milestones and review on going.
- Frequently communicate your confidence in the employees and your support of their development.